[ Hmmm.....Give him a moment to mull this other. ]

You're an attractive and smart young woman. I doubt there wasn't a single person that had some sort of interest in you. [ Romantically, that is. ] But given what you've told me about your previous occupation and the priorities of your coworkers, I can only assume that there were bigger fish in the sea they needed to worry about.

[ So....not her fault! But also probably not the greatest feeling. That's his view on things, anyway. ]

Meanwhile, most of us here have more freedom and less direction than perhaps what we're used to, so it's only natural to start exploring previously unconsidered options.