Wish I knew. Then maybe we could figure out how to prevent it.

[He wants to do more to take away the pain. Talking it out doesn't seem like a good idea, not right now anyway. Getting some rest doesn't seem helpful, since sleeping means the possibility of more memories bleeding into other's dreams. If all he can do right now is stand here and hold him in the cold desert air, so be it.]

Just give it a little time and thought. I'm sure he'd want to work things out as much as you do.